when v watch series or movies the startings are happy, u hv perfect lover, perfect friendship..etc n then it shows love trangle, betrayal, breakups n losing loved ones..n finally happy ending...when i sees this in movies its kinda understandable cox its just a movie..
but when the same drama happens in real life i cnt beleive it...cox how cn they forget the pain and the frustration... how can they trust the one who cheated on them??? when they breakup they scold each other, they burn every single present they got from tht relationship and much worse they curse each other...basically ther wont be any good thing left..
n the funny thing is if they get a chance to live together they dnt show any sign of previous hatred..they dnt talk abt the things happnd between them, dnt bother abt the betrayal and ll b acting as if nothin hpnd...i wonder r they truely in love o r they faking it???
cnt beleive tht ppl can be tht cheap n fake...
i cnt beleive tht ppl can be so evil and cunning..
when i sees these things, just one thing comes to my mind WHAT A DRAMA..
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wel u know why that happen, remember i tell u abt the 'golden thing' sum girls n guys have....its like a magnetic force which pulls them together if ahem ahem is fakka;)
if u know wot i mean
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really funny..but true
"they dnt talk abt the things happnd between them, dnt bother abt the betrayal and ll b acting as if nothin hpnd..." thats right coz then only they can live a happy life if they had to talk about previous stuffs thn i guess history gonna repeat,
Although Life looks like a Drama, its not a one afterall. Life is more like a puzzle to me. Everytime I have to find the missing pieces to make the big picture. Theoretically, there is something called, Forgive and Forget. To bring this theory to real life, we need to let go certain things, and act as if nothing happened.
i think by not talkin about the thngs that happned wont lead to a happy life ..cos it will be distrbn dem if dey keep dat in heart.it will burn dem inside n wud effect the realtionshp again and ofcos wud lead to repetition of history .historty will be repaetd..so its better to talk about it and find the reasons for all dat happend ..disscussing nd then reachn a conclusion.so dat they wud remember nt to repeat such things again...n it wud lead to a happy life.if in such cases dey dont reach a conlcusion about thngs happnd den atleast one wud be unhappy nt knwing wat ended dere realtionshp n wil be insecure the secnd tym.so better discuss wat happnd nt to let the history repeat .:)
hold on! I strongly believe in the phrase, "There should be thing that should not be talked about for the good". This applies to relationships as well. Whats the use of talking about an event that has been already passed our steps? What conclusion u gonna get? We dont have to think the worse case scenario always. To protect relationships ey, duh! comon girl. Finding about something later is totally a different story. But hell ya! clueless women are always the happiest women.
[P.S. This word verification is this comment page is freaking me out]
Ohmygod, is this something like a methematical error or an accounting error to go back n rectify. haha yeah maybe theoratically u can talk about it n find the guilty person and punish him/her. oops!! i mean as u say discuss abt the matter n promising not to repeat that n live happily. wot im trying to say is this aint gonna work in reality. the maximum u cud expect from it is an apology or probably a sorry, the more u talk abt it again the more argument u gonna get in to, so as grysko has mentioned if u donno how to forget n forive thn better learn to let go. IF U HAVENT NOTICED BEFORE THIS, ITS ONLY POSSIBLE IN DRAMAS TO EXPLAIN WOT U DID WRONG N TALK ABT IT AND END OF THE DAY THE HERO N HEROIN LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER.. NOT IN REALITY, U WONT HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO EXPLAIN.
and one more thing is its cos of love they keep silent n dun wanna talk abt it, becoz they dont wanna lose another, dont wanna past be an obstacle for future happiness. basically they wanna FORGET THE PAST, START WITH A NEW BEGINING..
they may wanna forget the past...bt hw can anyone forget those things tht easily...i mean it ll defenitely will disturb them ehnu....n atleast they can clarify the mistakes they hv done n THEY SHUD FYL SORRY for it..cox if they dnt fyl tht the same things gonna repeat..*thts my point of view ingey*,they cnt trust tht person n all..
n i dont mean to punish them inge..wen u talk abt it atleast u can say SORRY ehnu...so it may be easy to forgive n forget..i meant to say unless u didnt admit ur mistake how can it ll b easy to live with tht person..duh
people make dramas about life, wat we see in dramas is wat happen in real life, ya its true ppl brake up and again get together.. i am also v surprised about this how can they forget all the things that happened.. i dont belive in second chances and will never :D i dont agree with grysko "forget and forgive" ppl dont forget and forgive that easily.. ofcoz i dont :)
"Dhiking" i suggest u to read the actual post before commenting on the comments of others, grysko is 100% right.read the post first dude
That is true, we have to forgive and forget in order to go on with our life. However these people who had shared some valuable moments of our life and who earned our trust or who knows so much about us to shows how caring they are ....at least deserve a reason why we have hurt them after taking them half way through the journey of our life.
True we can't undo what had been done, and i don't think that's our intention also . We try to rectify our mistakes in future (not reversing an account entry).
Boys or girls the important thing is that we are human beings, and we have feelings, we can't just touch a person heart and just break it the next moment if we feel doing so ....and leave them wondering what had happen? They have a right to know what had happen ...after all they have shared the so called relationship.
The thing is we do our mistakes , but in that process if we hurt anyone we need to ask for forgiveness .
Life is too short for us to hold hard feelings with people the wise thing is to make peace and be in good terms.
And still you can go on with your life.
(WG)
Yaa i agree with u dhiking, it is not easy to forgive and forget ....
But guys who don't give a damn about others will just forget ( and totally forget to forgive also) and just go on with the carefree life.
second chances should be given on reasonable circumstances .... u just can't do whtever u feel tday n say wht ever comes to ur mouth and next day be back to like nothing happen ...
-tulip-
Totally agree with first anonymous here. n Dhiking, listen up. You cant just throw away someone just bcause someone has committed a mistake. Just dont expect people to be perfect - n you to be perfect after all. Dont go against human nature dude.
grysko i dont forget and forgive, i belive there is some1 perfect for me and she wudnt do anythin that i hav to forgive her.. u may think this is possible only in fairy tale, thats becoz u say u juss forgive and forget .. ofcoz there r some little mistake that u shud 4give and 4get.. here i am talking about bigger mistakes like lets say u caught ur gf with another boy still u will 4get and forgive tha? :S ofcoz u wudnt 4get it deep down somewhere u will alway remmber that.. thats y lost in da darkness says life is also a drama... u guys juss pretend that u hav forgetten everythin.. u juss say u forget and forgive but actually u dont :D
@dhiking
ofcourse i would say u r talking in a fairy tale. Screw that tale and open ur eyes to real world dude, where every things are imperfect.
I know everyone in this world is expecting something better each and everyday, like u expect someone who wouldn't do something that she should apologize for. But, you should really accept the fact that nothing would go as we expect. Hell ya! thats why we are called as humans.
pls note that here i m talking about those who are in love, ok . Forgive and Forget theory applies only to those people. (:D). I agree its not an easy task to forget something. But, you are just missing my point here. What about good memories? Kicking someone out for a 'once in a bluemoon' mistake is the same as forgetting the good memories u had. Wouldnt those good memories be enough to forgive someone if he/she is ready to rectify.
Everyone in this world is so imperfect. Just think about yourself, n you would know how weak and imperfect you are. Its more challenging to find the perfectness from an imperfect person, rather than waiting for the 'so called perfect' and 'fairy' to arrive :D
This is great info to know.
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